A Husband's Guide to : The Marriage Pause
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It seems to me that life can move by in two very different intervals. At times it feels as if the world around us is moving so very fast. Moments slip through our fingers lost to the winds of time in less time than it takes to blink an eye.
While at other times moments can last ten life times, each heartbeat taking hours to complete while we watch waiting for it to be over.
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The marriage pause is the moment we married people take to assess a situation and decide what our next action should be. Typically, ladies have us men beat in this department right out the gate. Women can take a holistic approach to any situation, whereas men, especially in the early years of a marriage are lucky if they remember to open the car door for our spouses.
That is not to say men cannot learn how to take the marriage pause, it is just our learning curve can be a bit steep. However we do get the easy ones. But there are some that require a more advanced degree.
TheHusBlog Definition Pause : Marriage Pause Degrees
- Elementary School : A woman other than our wife asks if we want to have sex. This is easy we say no (pause would be only as long as it takes us to draw breathe to say NO). Give us some credit here ladies.
- Junior High : Pause to compliment wife when she is dressed to the 9's.
- G.E.D. : Pause to think if the wife needs anything from the store when you go to get something for yourself.
- High School Diploma : When going to the store pause to ASK the wife if she needs anything.
- Bachelor's Degree : Taking a moment to really think about the best gift to get the wife for an anniversary or birthday.
- Master's Degree : Before you invite 10 friends over to watch the game you think if that will bother the wife and if so how you can alleviate her issues.
- PhD : Thinking about big decisions such as job or living condition and how it will affect your wife before you even contemplate it for yourself.
What about the Twix pause moments you gain while collecting your thoughts trying to avoid what you know will be a downhill slippery slop from hell? Recognizing those ahead of time, and adjusting your facial expressions, is definitely PhD-worthy; don't you think?
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I am Tamra Yagle Martinez from USA, my heart is filled with so much joy today because of what the great Dr Ayo has done in my life. I got married to my loving husband 4 years ago and we were living a happy life together as young couples and everything was moving on smoothly without know disturbance, two months later I went to check up in the clinic and the doctor confirmed that i am three weeks pregnant with my heart filled with joy and my face full of smile and laughter i ran down home to break the good news to my dear husband and he was very happy about the news and that night is a night i will always live to remember. To make the story short after i have delivered he was very happy to see our bouncing baby boy, but along the line he started keeping late night and going to club and doing the things he has never done before, and one morning i confronted him about his new attitude but he ignore my advice and to my greatest surprise i discover my husband was having an affair with a mistress in his working place and they were seeing each other after work hour. On one faithful night my husband came back home and started packing all his belongings and told me that he is tired of me that he is filing for an annulment not knowing that his mistress has cast love spell on him that was why he was acting strange so i told my friend Grace in my working place and she said a friend of hers got same issue but got a help from a spell caster , we contacted the firend and she gave us the spell caster email address: {Okirikaspiritualherbaltemple@gmail.com} and ask me to contact him that he will help me to bring back my husband in none less than three days so when i got home i contacted him and he replied me and said that my husband is under a great love spell but he promise to help bring back my husband. To my greatest suprise, i received a call from my husband at the middle of the night asking for my forgiveness saying it is the work of the devil that he did not know when he did what he has done, and finally he came to my house in the morning on bended knees begging for my forgivenss. All thanks to great Dr. Ayo for his great help in my family for helping me to restore my lost joy to my family, in-case you have similar case or even worst than my own your can contact him with his EMAIL ADDRESS: Okirikaspiritualherbaltemple@gmail.com
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Greeting to any body that is reading my comment,Am Tanya Albert All Thanks goes to Dr Ero, i was married to my husband, and we were living fine and happy. it come to an extend that my husband that use to love and care for me, those not have my time again, until i fined at that he was having an affair with another woman, i try to stop him,all my effort was in-vain sadly he divorce me and went for the woman. he live me with two of our kids, i cry all day, i was in pains, sorrow and looking for help. i was reading a news paper, i saw how Dr Ero help people with his love and reuniting spell. so i decided to contact him and explain my problem to him, he did a love spell that make my husband to come back to me and our kids and never think of the woman. this man is god sent to restore heart break and reunite relationship. may the lord be your strength and continue to use you to save people relationship and any problem they encounter contact him for help dr.eromosespelltemple@hotmail.com i promise you that you, he will but a smile on your face and make you feel happy. good luck.
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I GIVE THANKS TO DR WILLIAMS FOR GIVING ME LIFE.
He helped me with a fast cure to fibroid,and the size of it was .7cm, Then I started taking the medication for only one month, and now am completely cured from it. I was able to make it without any surgery, now I can live like every normal human and I can eat any food of my choice If you need such help, contact him via mail on drwilliams098765@gmail.com for advice
My partner and I have been trying for a baby for over seven years, Finally i am now a mother now
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-- Irregular Menstrual Cycles
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-- Ovarian Cyst
-- Miscarriages
-- High Prolactin
-- Hormonal Imbalances
-- Low Sexual Drive
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my wife have had two myomectomy, abdominal in 05/2012 and laparoscopy in 02/2014. she have never been pregnant; not to my knowing. I’m feeling hopeless and the fibroids are growing again. Doctor said that it look like she may need another myomectomy. I know that I have a fibroid the size of a goose egg(6cm).so i was online looking for help when i saw a post about this dr buba who has helped many with root ans herbs so i wrote to him he gave me some advice and told me what to do which i did then he sent a bottle of a herbal drug to me through DHL which she used for seven days and today she is fine with our second child already all thanks to him if you
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Shout it louder, Or go out and reach others who have not heard of it .it is real Dr climent HERBAL Center is really doing a great works within and outside just try it and you will testify just as i am testifying now, i have this infection that lead to womb blockage and there was no hope at all the hospital i went said nothing but that there on hope for 4 years that i have waited no child then i came across Dr climent HERBAL Center now and he is a wonderful native herbalist who told me he can do it but i was scared because i have not take anything drugs natural before but since i had no child i have to comply with the rules and regulation and now am carrying my child just try it and see your time to celebrate has come . you can reach Dr climent HERBAL Center via email : drclimentscott@gmail.com +2347036879479 +2347036879479 drclimentscott@gmail.com +2347036879479 +2347036879479
ALL THANKS TO DR ODIA WITH HIS HERBAL ROOT AND HERBS AM COMPLETELY CURED FROM FIBROID
I can’t believe this. A great testimony that i must share to all fibroid patient in the world. i never believed that their could be any complete cure for fibroid with out going for surgery ,i saw people’s testimony on internet on how Dr ODIA prepare herbal root and herbs that shrink there fibroid naturally. i had to try it too i contacted him on: odiaherbalcenter@yahoo.com. and him told me how to get his herbal medicine, and you can,t believe that in just few weeks i started using it all my pains stop gradually . Right now i want to tell you all that i just give birth to a baby boy last month,and on till now' i have not had any pain, and i just went for text last week and the doctor confirmed that there is no trace of any fibroid in my system. after 8 year of suffering from fibroid am now free, Glory be to God for leading me to this great Dr ODIA I am so happy as i am sharing this testimony. My advice to you all who thinks that their is no herbal cure for fibroid that is Not true ,just contact him and get cure his email odiaherbalcenter@yahoo.com and you will be free and free forever, Try it and you will not regret it because it truly works. i hope to see your testimony soon.
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living with HIV for the past three years,it has been hell to me and I have tried all possible means to get cure but all to no avail, luckily for me one day as i was browsing through the Internet searching for remedy on HIV/AIDS, and i saw comment of people talking about how Dr osaze oshoregbemhe cured them,so I contacted him base on the testimonies i have been seeing about him on the internet, he told me how he will get me cured and all that i need to do to get cured which i obliged to him, I made the purchased for the herbal cure for HIV from him and he send it to me and the instructions on how am to be using it.
after using his herbal medicine which he send to me for a period of 21 days as he has instructed, i went for check up at the hospital behold i was now tested negative and i have gotten my life back, All thanks to you Dr osaze oshoregbemhe for curing me of this deadly diseases (HIV) with his herbal cure. I have also read alot about him having herbal cure to all manners of diseases and infection such as follows ,HERPES.HEPATITIS,DIABETES,EPILEPSY,FIBROID,PILE,LOVE SPELL,LOW SPERM COUNT,CANCER OF ALL KIND... He's a good God fearing man... CONTACT HIM ON EMAIL oshoregbemhehealinghome@gmail.com or call +2349053289227
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You managed to hit the nail upon the top and also defined out the whole thing without having side effect , people could take a signal. Will likely be back to get more. Thanks
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I never thought that there will be a miracle on the internet until i came in contact with Priest Babaka, finally i made it with his help, with his spiritual power which was recommended by a lady in baby center he help before, i never believe it was real until i confirm it now because i have tried so many things to make sure i get pregnant but no luck, immediately i contact him. he did some spiritual prayers and send me a medicine which i took, i got pregnant three weeks after, and i now have a son to show. thank you so much priest and i recommend Priest Babaka for everyone out there that is willing to have a child of her own out there. contact him for help too he is real and powerful, i have confirmed it, contact him on email: babaka.wolf@gmail.com or Facebook at priest.babaka
My Name is Faith, and am really grateful and thankful for what Dr voodoo
has done for me and my family. I Was having HIV/AIDS for good three years
with no solution, the diseases almost took my life and cause I was unable
to work and I was also loosing lots of money for medication, but one
faithful day when I went online, I met lots of testimonies about this great
man so I decided to give it a try and to God be the glory he did it. he
cured me of my diseases and am so happy and so pleased to Write about him
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