What's In A Name?
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The HusBlog
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So you know, a 2 year or so hiatus, I wonder what has been going on? Well long story short, I got divorced. It seemed hard to write about adventures in marriage when I was in a marriage falling apart and now that I am divorced it would be impossible.
I love writing it and really enjoyed keeping this blog. I wrestled with just deleting it, but I truly loved some of what I wrote. I am now wrestling with re-purposing it to capture my new adventures. But there in lies the rub(I love getting the chance to say that). My name TheHusBlog, short for the Husband's Blog. But if I change my name, then I would have to change the domain, then there would be all kinds of hassles.
But what if, instead I just re-purpose my name as well? What if the Hus in TheHusBlog was no longer short for Husband, but instead was an acronym?
I came up with some options:
Happily Under Stress
Hopeful, Upbeat, Silly
Heartfelt Urban Sickness(They all can't be winners people)
Hear, Understand, Say
Have Unyielding Soul
Hump Under Stairs?
I don't know if I will use any of the above. Maybe I will come up with others or maybe I will just say screw it and be TheHusBlog without any care as to what my name implies.
As always this blog was a place for me to journal my adventures, the marriage is over, but the adventures are not. In fact look forward to all kinds of new topics:
I love writing it and really enjoyed keeping this blog. I wrestled with just deleting it, but I truly loved some of what I wrote. I am now wrestling with re-purposing it to capture my new adventures. But there in lies the rub(I love getting the chance to say that). My name TheHusBlog, short for the Husband's Blog. But if I change my name, then I would have to change the domain, then there would be all kinds of hassles.
But what if, instead I just re-purpose my name as well? What if the Hus in TheHusBlog was no longer short for Husband, but instead was an acronym?
I came up with some options:
Happily Under Stress
Hopeful, Upbeat, Silly
Heartfelt Urban Sickness(They all can't be winners people)
Hear, Understand, Say
Have Unyielding Soul
Hump Under Stairs?
I don't know if I will use any of the above. Maybe I will come up with others or maybe I will just say screw it and be TheHusBlog without any care as to what my name implies.
As always this blog was a place for me to journal my adventures, the marriage is over, but the adventures are not. In fact look forward to all kinds of new topics:
- Dating post divorce (oh that should be interesting)
- Living in an apartment complex filled with either Divorced People or 20 somethings that really can't afford to live there
- Telling all your friends about your divorce, a how to guide?
The truth of the matter is this whole experience taught me one thing. I have amazing friends and family. While going through the divorce I was surrounded by the most supportive people anyone could ever ask for. Friends that I had neglected came out of the woodwork to support me. When I was at my lowest, my friends and family were at their best. I would be a broken man without them.
I am rambling... Let me close by saying I am back. TheHusBlog will be resurrected, I will find a way to respect the past and move to the future. Who knows I might even use my real name...
Is it Hector?
NO!
-TheHusBlog